Starting a new office job can be exciting. There are lots of new things to learn and new colleagues to meet. First day nerves are common though, as it’s a new, unfamiliar environment. Here are seven tips to help you settle in and make a great impression on your new coworkers.

Show Interest in Colleagues

Take an interest in your colleagues in order to get to know them better. Avoid asking overly personal questions by sticking to work-related topics. Questions such as “How did you learn to do that?” or “What was the most interesting project you worked on?” can open up a conversation that makes your colleagues feel valued. You may even gain some insight about your new job.

Greet Your Team

Some new employees like to slip in and out of the office as quietly as possible, perhaps due to shyness or not wanting to disturb anyone’s work. However, it’s nice to start the day off by greeting your coworkers in the morning – and end the day on a high note by acknowledging them when you leave. It certainly isn’t necessary to go around the office and tell everyone personally, but a pleasant “Good morning” or “Have a good night” to those around you will create a more positive and approachable vibe.

Mind Your Language

When getting to know your colleagues, it can be easy to fall into the trap of trying too hard to fit in. Take some time to settle in before attempting to assert yourself or become the office jokester. Show respect and maturity by avoiding foul language, being too loud, or making too many jokes. Ensure topics of conversation won’t offend others or be viewed as immature. And save the story about your wild weekend until you’ve been there for a while.

Avoid Taking PTO Too Soon

Employees who immediately book time off can be viewed as seeming more interested in vacationing than their new role. It’s best to settle into your new job and obtain a copy of the PTO policy before requesting time off.

Be Considerate

If your new job has a dining area or allows you to eat at your desk, choose carefully which types of food to bring to work until you are familiar with the standards in your new office. For instance, while seafood or garlic-heavy dishes might be a tasty meal, circulating a strong aroma around the office space may rub some people the wrong way. Loud foods such as apples, chips, and gum can also be distracting – so it’s safer to choose foods that won’t interrupt anyone’s work.

Follow the Dress Code

One of the first things you should do after accepting a new job is become acquainted with the office dress code policy. Read the employee manual, and ask if there are any additional “unwritten rules” that might not be explicitly stated. Even in casual offices, don’t assume that ripped jeans or cropped tops will be acceptable. Some types of clothes may be considered inappropriate depending on your location, industry, and line of work. As a new employee it’s better to be too smart than too casual, so err on the side of caution until you have gotten used to what’s considered appropriate. And of course, ensuring your clothes are clean, ironed, and tidy will always go a long way.

With a little bit of planning, a positive approach, and common sense professionalism, you can make a great first impression when you start your new office job. Make the most of this opportunity by starting off on the right foot so you can settle in as quickly and smoothly as possible.

The Covid-19 pandemic forced companies around the world to adjust their business practices, including shifting to a work-from-home model. This change resulted in the emergence of the virtual meeting. And even as lockdown restrictions loosened, many businesses have allowed their staff to continue working from home.

Virtual meetings are becoming the norm, but it’s still a new experience for many – so it’s important to practice proper etiquette while everyone gets more comfortable with this new model. Below are a few tips to help you conduct a focused and efficient virtual meeting.

1. Introduce everyone when the meeting begins.

It would be inappropriate to start a conversation between two acquaintances who have never met before without first introducing them, just as you would not do in a real meeting or social function. The same procedure should be followed for a virtual meeting. Ensure that all attendees are introduced at the outset of the event. This will establish a welcome environment and inspire interaction among attendees.

2. Make sure you’re prepared.

When preparing for your meeting, review the objectives, familiarize yourself with the attendees, create a clear agenda, set a time limit, and make a list of notes to follow once it begins. When appropriate, invite attendees to contribute to the planning of the meeting. Preparing ahead of time is always good practice, and can often be the key factor in making a meeting successful.

3. Keep distractions to a minimum.

Before starting a virtual meeting, make sure that you silence your mobile phone and disable any applications on your computer that have the ability to push notifications to you. No one wants to  hear your phone ring, or hear your computer “bing” every time you receive an incoming email or chat. It’s also a good idea to close any web browser tabs that aren’t pertinent to your meeting, as they sometimes involve background processes that can slow down or even freeze up your computer.

4. Prepare a clean, business-appropriate setting.

If your meeting involves video, you want your participants’ attention to be focused on the meeting content rather than on your cluttered office or your impressive art collection. By creating a clean environment you can reduce the likelihood that participants will become distracted. You should also make every effort to attend the meeting from a calm location where there is little background noise or movement. Some platforms such as Zoom even offer a virtual background feature, which can be a valuable tool for reducing background distractions.

5. Other quick tips.

• Look into the camera. Ensure that your camera is placed at eye level, and look directly into it during the meeting. Looking around your room can give the impression that you are distracted, bored, or disengaged.
• Use the mute button wisely. You definitely want to close off your mic if it’s picking up on feedback or echoes, but many times your subtle sounds – such as an “mmhmm” or a giggle – can improve the fidelity of the dialogue.
• Hosts should be the last to leave. As a general guideline, meeting hosts should wait until everyone else has left the room before ending the meeting, allowing attendees to leave at their own pace and to say anything additional they want before disconnecting. A host abandoning everyone else in the meeting is like leaving your own party without telling anyone.

Emotions are complex, subjective, biological states of the mind. They can change based on reactions to stimuli, like memories and thoughts, and often lead to actions. In times of stress, emotions can get the better of you, causing outbursts and rifts in relationships.

Setbacks like these can harm productivity, work ethic, and morale in the workplace. While it may seem like reacting and responding to situations are the same, responding offers a higher self-awareness that can make stressful situations pass effortlessly.

What’s the Difference?

• Reacting is often more instinctive and impulsive. There is no prior consideration of what is said, done, or the consequences that may follow, as it comes from the subconscious mind. A reaction can come off as defensive, or even aggressive.
• Responding occurs when there is acknowledgment of your current emotions and a conscious decision in the actions that follow. It often includes considering all sides of a situation and then choosing the best path to handle it.

Make the Change

The foundation of a response is rooted in pausing before doing or saying anything. As hard as that can be when emotions flare up, try taking quick, shallow breaths or mentally counting down from 10. This will allow your emotion to settle subtly enough to process your situation better. If your emotion still lingers, try politely excusing yourself from the situation. Once you’ve cooled off you can revisit your situation with more clarity.

Another helpful tool is practicing the elements of mindfulness. This involves taking in your surroundings, living in the moment, and being aware of your mind and body. Mindfulness encourages self-awareness, strengthens emotional intelligence, and decreases stress. Consider hosting a company-wide mindfulness webinar as part of your corporate wellness plan.

Transitioning from reacting to responding will require time and practice, but it will help advance your work relationships, your career, and your company. Start responding today.